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When the right time came, I had,of course,every intention of becoming a conscientious,involved grandparent. 
But that was more about doing the right thing for the children than fulfilling a deep instinctive need of my own .As a psychotherapist,I am hyper-aware of how life-transforming a good relationship with a grandparent can be .  It offers so much more than treats,extra quality time and cheap nannying . Good grandparents help build psychological security by making their grandchildren feel part of a much wider,diverse and stable supportive family network. They also give them life a meaningful  sense of perspective.